2010年11月25日 星期四

珠式京都排骨


好久都没有很认真下厨,常常都是家常便饭随便解决一餐。。。

那天逛超市随手就买了猪肋排但心里倒没有特定的谱要怎么解决它!前几天心血来潮决定动手煮这道老公爱吃的京都排骨 - 它就是我们当晚的主菜哦!不知好歹的老公竟然取笑说今天有幸吃到酒楼的菜色!!还趁热点火要我下星期到朋友家做客时再烹煮一次保持水平!

材料:
猪肋排 我用约500g

腌料:
猪肋排:用生抽、适量盐、糖、胡椒粉、料酒、蛋液(半颗的量)、蒜頭 (我用2瓣)腌制30分钟左右,下油锅前搬拌入木薯粉/太白粉搅匀

酱汁:
辣椒酱 1大匙
番茄酱 2大匙
糖 1大匙
水 2大匙

简略烹调方式如下:

1.排骨洗干净加入腌料(太白粉除外)腌约30分钟后,排骨在入锅油炸前拌入太白粉
2.将油烧至约7分热放入排骨炸至棕色,转大火炸约1分钟后沥干油捞起备用
3.如想让排骨更酥脆,可在排骨起锅后再把油加至高温然后把排骨放入约15秒左右再快速撈起
4.另起一个鍋,用少許油爆香蒜茸,加入预先調配好的醬料兜抄至滚,拌入炸好的排骨快速以大火翻炒至醬汁收乾后搅拌均匀,即可上碟。

贴心叮咛:
1.我在爆香蒜茸后,另加些番茄酱翻炒让菜色更鲜艳然后才加入预先調配好的醬料
2.糖和番茄酱可依个人的甜度喜好自行斟酌用量

2010年11月14日 星期日

爱心树



一直都非常喜欢绘本创作但却总是碍于昂贵的书价而却步,绘本对幼儿绝对是首选,最近在积极搜索适合宝宝的读物绘本,但宝宝还小合适的童书绘本其实不多,反而是在觅书的过程当中自己却对本本插画精美、动人的故事深深着迷。。。

最近读到的《爱心树》- 一个简单但却寓意深厚的故事就这么轻易的征服了我的心,读着读着眼泪不禁自觉地淌下……

我相信每个读到的孩子或大人都会被大树那深深无私的爱和奉献打动,特别值得推荐给爸爸妈妈们。

从前有一棵大树……

它喜欢上一个男孩儿。

男孩儿每天会跑到树下

采集树叶,

给自己做王冠,

想像自己就是森林之王……


决定等宝宝懂事后要念给他听!

在网上听到谢尔·希尔弗斯坦演唱听爱心树的歌,平静中略带淡淡的忧伤很让人陶醉……


《爱心树》歌词

The Giving Tree
Once there was a giving tree who loved a little boy
And everyday the boy would come to play
Swinging from her branches sleeping in her shade
Laughing all the summer hours away
And so they loved and oh the tree was happy
Oh the tree was glad

But soon the boy grew older one day he came and said
Can you give me some money, tree
To buy something I’ve found
I have no money said the tree
Just apples, twigs and leaves
But you can take my apples, boy
And sell them in the town
And so he did and oh the tree was happy
Oh the tree was glad

But soon again the boy came back and he said to the tree
I’m now a man and I must have a house that’s all my own
I can’t give you a house she said
The forest is my house
But you may cut my branches off and build yourself a home
And so he did and oh the tree was happy
Oh the tree was glad

And time went by and the boy came back with sadness in his eyes
My life has turned so cold he said I need sunny days
I’ve nothing but my trunk she said
But you may cut it down
And build yourself a boat and sail away
And so he did and oh the tree was happy
Oh the tree was glad

And after years the boy came back both of them were old
I really cannot help you if you ask for another gift
I’m nothing but an old stump now
I’m sorry boy she said
I’m sorry but I’ve nothing more to give
I do not need very much now just a quiet place to rest
The boy, who whispered with a weary smile
Well said the tree an old stump is still good for that
Come boy she said sit down
Sit down and rest a while
And so he did and oh the tree was happy

Oh the tree was glad


如果有兴趣,也可以看看网上《爱心树》中文版的flash

2010年11月10日 星期三

LEON on the move

*written @ LEON 9 months 2 weeks 5 days old*

This week we have experience a very exciting development - so far my little cheeky boy has been progressing very well from sitting, crawling, standing, cruising (walking while holding on to furniture/ rollable toybox and etc). Yes. yes yessses and now, he has starting his wobbly steps. He first took one or two steps. Then a few more.



It's terrifically amazing and exciting to see our little one who is less than 10 months old took his first steps. I have read that walking early or late has very little to do with a child's development in other areas, such as thinking or language.As a rule of thumb, early walkers are no smarter than late walkers.This article is not meant to praise our young adventurer. In fact, I noticed that Leon is having lots of joy of movements but not so much in other areas, perhaps that's the reason to explain why he put less energy into other learning areas like waving, clapping his hands and talking! Though he likes to yell but NOT talk! At first this actually causes a little concern to me, but I believe eventually it will make little difference as he will still reach the development milestone on his own pace.

I always wonder how come a little baby will know how and when to do what!? Just like Leon,I would say he is quite an eagle and adventurous baby and he just know when he is ready to kick off his steps. Before he literally started his steps,he pulled to standing alongside a chair, bed, box, toys or almost anything that can support him, and then he will let go and perhaps attempt to take one or two steps before he falls down. He will repeat this exercise through out his daytime activity with full passionate until he succeeds and shows his cheeky little smiles!

I love to see his cheeky little smiles. I love when he shows his innocence look and stares at us. I love when he gives a big sweet smile. I love when he is leaning into my arms asking for a big hug...






P.S: My Chinese software is having problem and can't compose in Chinese for the time being...... :(

2010年10月22日 星期五

母狮子的话

那天看了小燕姐和吴淡如的访谈,吴淡如说:“孩子能激起妈妈歇斯底里的个性。。”这话听了之后还真的很有同感,也难怪自从有了宝宝后老公每次都说我越来越像一只母狮子@@

当孩子大哭大闹時,该如何安顿好自己当下那颗混合着怒气又束手无策的心,以柔软而平和的态度来处理孩子的情绪风暴呢? 这的确是我在育儿上所面临的其中一项艰巨的挑战,其实这问题对我这个超级没耐心的家伙是非常棘手的我相信它也是许多妈妈们面对的问题吧!特别是当你家有一个意志力还挺坚定孩子时,绝对是智慧与耐性最大的考验。

最近不约而同地阅读了一些相关的资料,觉得有必要把这些教条记录下来提醒自己:


转载:

快乐瓜爸瓜妈分享了以下一些方法让爸爸妈妈擁有育兒好心情~ 

1.當孩子製造出麻煩問題,令你感覺生氣時,請先告訴孩子:「我現在很生氣,你先等我十分鐘,讓我冷靜一下。」然後跑回房間猛做深呼吸,平復自己的情緒再去做處理;如果孩子年紀太小,對他這樣講聽不懂時,父母可以直接去別的地方冷靜冷靜就可以了,並不用先跟孩子說這句話。

2.平時就先教養出有禮貌、嘴巴甜的孩子:當你心情不好,會因為孩子說「喜歡你、謝謝你、對不起」這些話,而容易平復自己的心情喔!

3. 引導孩子表達自己的想法:平時不要常常打壓孩子、否定孩子之外,也常要對孩子說說自己內心的想法。如果孩子做出每件事情,不是只有表面那樣的簡單,你能知道他內心真正的想法,就較不容易感覺生氣;有時候我們發現孩子心懷好意,只是做完後失敗了,剛剛卻已經責罰了他,是不是常感到無比的後悔呢?

例如:瓜瓜很喜歡幫我們剝豌豆夾,我們知道他是想要幫忙,而不是想玩耍浪費食物,如果他剝不好我們也不會感覺生氣,反而還會一直說他厲害,更積極教他怎樣可以剝得更好。萬一情況倒反過來,看到瓜瓜拿豆莢去亂折,孩子還不會表達,父母親也不懂猜測真實情況,我們將因此失去掉一個「剝豆莢的好幫手」。

4.把孩子假想成是「重要客人」的孩子:對於重要客人的孩子,當然你就不會打他罵他來處理問題,其實人類都有種潛能,遇到不能打罵生氣的大前提下,還是可以把問題處理得很好哩!這時候你還會嚴格要求自己要“平心靜氣”來處理。




水瓶面面在《親子天下》中也分享了在以下的两段话:
1.
「學齡前的孩子,挫折免疫力的死角是『有苦說不出』。面對挫折時常常情緒失控,比方說大哭大鬧、躲起來。其實這並不一定是因為孩子缺乏面對挫折的彈性,真相可能是他『有苦說不出』。因為語言表達的限制,學齡前的小孩,有些情緒無法清楚表達。因為說不出來,所以只能用最原始的本能哭和鬧來引起注意。若能夠理解小孩是因為語言表達不足,才會轉化成為情緒上的風暴,父母才不會過分焦慮。應該理解小小孩『有苦說不出』的挫折,透過引導和對話找到問題的核心。」

2.
「面對大哭大鬧的孩子,此時此刻,爸媽說什麼都聽不進去,爸媽此刻若也用吼的回應,只會造成更糟糕的反效果。精神科醫生王浩威建議,這時父母應該在孩子看得到的範圍內,『微笑,或至少是不生氣』的陪伴和等待。若是比較小的小孩,爸媽可以緊緊抱住他,讓他安靜下來。等到孩子靜下來後,該堅持的原則不能棄守……不需要急著和他談剛剛發生的事情,只需讓他知道你一直在身邊。」


虽然我目前在处理孩子情绪方面的问题还有待改进,但是为了维持和睦的家我一定会努力学习育儿好心情!! 要不然每次宝宝闹情绪无辜的老公也会遭受池鱼之殃。。。

P。S:老公,谢谢你对我的体谅!

小小叛逆期

《写在宝宝九个月一周岁》

原来你已经不再是小小的小小的小宝宝了!

原来你已经不经意的在这些日子酝酿着自己小小的。。。不,是大大的成长!!

如果在你一岁以前把十二个月分成四个小成长阶段,你已经安然地度过了人生三个小阶段咯!你已经是九个月大的小小幼儿了不再是乖乖让爹地妈咪捧在手心那个无能力反抗的小家伙!

现在的你。。。



有了四颗小牙牙喜欢咿咿呀呀不停的讲话?骂人?唱歌?!
越来越有自己的意见而且也非常懂得如何表示自己的喜怒哀乐
举凡吃粥、喝奶、喝开水、换衣服、换尿布只要是你不喜欢的事就会用吼声抗议
吃饱了或遇到不喜欢的食物时会摇头紧闭小嘴宁死不屈
爱抢妈咪的汤匙、杯子,喜欢自己喂食
自己亲自把食物送进小嘴时会乐乐得傻笑
吃饱喜欢抢妈咪掌管的小牙刷自己乱乱刷刷刷
不论是玩具或是任何家用物品只要一到小手马上送进小嘴
当你越界试图走近或摸索着家中的禁物爹地妈咪跟你大声说“不可以”时 - 你就会贼贼的咧嘴笑笑假装没有发生什么大事然后慢慢转移阵地,还真是有够怪皮的!!
大一点声量说你你就会先扁嘴看一看妈咪然后就哇哇大哭而且一发不可收拾
很爱黏人妈咪走到哪里就要跟到哪里
已经能够自己站得更好,也喜欢沿着沙发床缘自己慢慢一步一步向前行走。。。
有事没事会不自觉地“ma ma ma ma”叫个不停,很少很少但偶尔会突然“pa pa pa”

还有一箩筐的罪行没法一一道尽,以图为证!呵呵呵。。。